"7 Ways Of Having Your Ex-Boyfriend Back"

Sometimes, we think a break up is the best thing after bread and butter when things go south in a relationship. Emotions are boiling, swords are drawn, words are exchanged and then we decide it is best we go our separate ways.

It is however surprising when you discover that the person who seemed to cause you pain is one your heart will not let go. The heart will always want what it wants. So, what if after a break up, you discover that you still love your ex-boyfriend? Forget what many people say (especially on nairaland). A modest figure of 60% of people in relationships have experienced break up at some time.

So why did they get back? Because the break up gave them time to assess themselves and showed them how valuable the relationship they had was. So, if you still love your ex, don't be shy about it or deny it. Even marriage will have its own issues, and you can't opt out because of it. No, you stay to fix it.

Getting your ex-boyfriend back is not an impossible task. It will just require considerable effort if your relationship was real while it lasted. Here are a couple of things you can do to get him back.

1. Is it worth it:

You need to really be sure if your ex is worth going back to. If he has serious issues like cheating or assault, kindly save yourself from unnecessary future pain and invest your precious energy in to other productive activities. That means it is pointless following the points in this article. If he is worth it, you may then proceed.

2. How did the break up come about:

The first step to treating an illness is accurate diagnosis. You need to know what caused the problem. Was it from your end or it was his fault? Many a time, we lay the entire blame for the failure of a thing on our partner simply because we are the alternative. Even if he was at fault, you need to see the role you may have played in it.

3. Work on yourself: 

Rather than mope about, improve your character. Work on your attitude and let go of bad habits that you may have. Also, take out time to change your looks. Obviously, this is one way of attracting his attention since men are creatures of sight. Make a new hairdo, get yourself new outfits and engage in exercise if need be. Those two are absolutely important. While your looks may attract him, your new character will keep him with you. 

4. What kind of man is he:

You stand a brighter chance of having him back since you know him. And the good news is, guys are basically single celled. I mean we are easy to understand and predict once you know us. How does your ex like you to relate with him? You should know your way. How does he like to have issues settled? 

5. Mutual friends can come in handy:

It is will help if you let close mutual friends that you both share know about your intentions. However, you need to be choosy about who you approach. Not every friend that smiles with you roots for your relationship with him. Intimate them of your plans and get their advise on how to go about it. They are your invaluable asset here.

6. Agree with him:

Agreeing with him does not necessarily mean that he is totally right and you are wrong. Instead, it means you choose to see things from his perspective and acknowledge that his opinion is valid. Wherever there is a misunderstanding, you need to find the understanding that I missing. Be humble in your approach and gentle with your choice of words.

7. Apologize for your fault:

Since we already established that both parties have their share in the blame, apologize for your faults. If your ex is thoughtful, he will naturally feel obligated to own up to his wrongs. However, you need to take some time before you implement this stage. Rome was not built in a day. Don't try to rush the process.

all the best sister as you amend your relationship. feel free to ask questions or post your comments in the comment box.

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3 Simple Ways To Help You Identify Original Android Phone From A Fake One

                                                                          Samsung phone (File Photo)

1. Checking the Build Quality

Compare the handset to the original one. Most of the expensive phones are made of high-quality materials. If possible, compare them to your handset and make a comparison.

It is not an assurance that your phone is original if it looks exactly the same as the expensive, high-quality phone.

i. ompare the handset to the original one. Most of the expensive phones are made of high-quality materials. If possible, compare them to your handset and make a comparison.

It is not an assurance that your phone is original if it looks exactly the same as the expensive, high-quality phone

ii. Go to the cell phone manufacturer’s website and check the materials used. To be sure, it’s better to check their website to know what materials were used for your handset.

For example, your handset is a Samsung; it states on the website that this Samsung cell phone’s screen is made of glass. If the screen of the handset you have is made of plastic, there is a possibility that it’s a clone.

2. Checking the Software Used and Other Specifications

Go to the cell phone manufacturer’s website and check the materials used. To be sure, it’s better to check their website to know what materials were used for your handset.

For example, your handset is a Samsung; it states on the website that this Samsung cell phone’s screen is made of glass. If the screen of the handset you have is made of plastic, there is a possibility that it’s a clone.

i. Check the specification on the box. You can find the product specification on the back of the box of the phone. Compare it with your handset by going to Settings > About phone. If the specifications don’t match, it’s possible your phone is a clone.

In case the box is missing, the whole specs are available to view online on GSMArena or in its official website too.

ii. Check your phone’s specification using a third-party app. To check your own handset’s specification, search and download Antutu Benchmark from Google Play. The logo is a red Android image with fire as a background. It will let you test your device’s speed and will later detect full specification of your phone and device’s name.

If it will display another phone’s manufacturer’s name, then your phone might be a clone.

iii. Check the software. If your phone is an iPhone, you can check the software. iPhone clones are not Java capable and use Android as their OS. The clone manufacturer cannot use iOS because it’s Apple-exclusive.

Remember also that the iPhone has the iTunes App Store, not Google Play.

An iPhone is connected to iTunes, and you must have an iCloud account to allow synchronization from your phone.

3. Verifying the IMEI and Serial Number

Check the software. If your phone is an iPhone, you can check the software. iPhone clones are not Java capable and use Android as their OS. The clone manufacturer cannot use iOS because it’s Apple-exclusive.

Remember also that the iPhone has the iTunes App Store, not Google Play.

An iPhone is connected to iTunes, and you must have an iCloud account to allow synchronization from your phone.

-WikiHow

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Tips!! How To Get More Storage Space On Your Android Device (Must Read!!)

The easiest way to add storage to your Android phone or tablet is with a microSD card, even if it doesn’t support one.

Assuming it does, when buying a microSD card for your phone or tablet, you should first check the manufacturer’s specification or reviews of that device to see what type of cards it will accept.

Many budget phones, for example, will accept only 32GB, while higher-end devices typically handle128GB. You certainly don’t want to pay out for a 128GB card only to find it won’t work in your phone.

You will find manufacturers offer various types of microSD card, with some claiming to be faster or more secure than others are. For simple storage of your files any microSD card will do, but note that fakes can be found online, so be wary of anything too cheap or brands you haven’t come across before.

If your phone or tablet doesn’t natively support microSD, it’s easy to attach one to make use of on an ad-hoc basis using a microSD card reader, which connects to your phone’s Micro-USB port.

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Top 5 Facts Twitter Is Better Than Facebook

Today’s post is all about social networks, and when someone say social networks? If whatever options that comes to your mind does not include facebook and twitter, then close this page and continue sucking your mama’s breast. It’s no more news that these two social networks has taken over the world and we are all proud they came into existence in our generation.

Even though facebook is the largest social network in the world, no social media can be compared to facebook in terms of members on fb. But it’s not all about that, there are so many astonishing features that makes twitter the best social network over facebook. Apology to Mark Zuckerberg, but let us all review these points maybe you all will also agree with me:

1.FRIENDS VS FOLLOWERS: When you are my friend with me on facebook, then I’m automatically your friend also, all my posts, picture uploads and my actions on facebook will automatically be showing up on your news feed, but will you agree with me that not everybody on social media knows how to use it? sometimes you come across some status updates from facebook members and their updates are irritating and disgusting for your liking. Then you feel like removing that particular user, but by so doing, your friendship with the person is also removed automatically.

Unlike twitter where they call friends followers, you follow people, not adding them as friends, while you are on your timeline and you come across any irritating updates from a particular user, you can simply unfollow the person, and still, that doesn’t mean the person is no more following you. You will not be seeing his annoying tweets anymore and the person will still be seeing yours. Isn’t that cool enough? Yes of course, you would be relieved and clean up your timeline of immature users unlike facebook where that man posts indecent posts always but you can’t remove him due to the fact that you need more people to read your posts.

2.FRIENDS LIMIT: On facebook, there are limits to number of friends you can have, thus, the probability of people your posts will reach is very low, for example if you post anything on facebook and you are having just 300 friends on facebook, they are the only one that would see your updates at that particular time. Though your friends can share it on their timeline to reach more audience, but its not a usual practice on facebook, they’d rather comment on your post to praise you than to share it.

On Twitter, though you might have a very limited number of followers, and still your tweets can go wide, Just a retweet from someone following you is the key, it’s a natural action on twitter to retweet any tweet that comes your way and aside, if anyone feels like adding something to your tweet, there is no way they can do it without being seen from their followers also. People are much more likely to retweet your tweets or anything you do than to share your status on Facebook.

3.BREAKING NEWS: Some folks will really disagree with me on this, but let the truth set you free, you get to know what’s going on around you faster on twitter. When there are a breakout jokes that just happened over any TV station, it has already become a trending topic on twitter, when a celebrity makes a mistake in an interview, twitter users have already carried it on their heads like face cap. Wait, do you actually believe this? Bloggers, and news writers search for news on twitter and not on facebook. Or have you ever seen a news online that says “FACEBOOK USERS RESPONDS TO OBAMA’S SPEECH”? Never!! you will rather see headlines that says twitter users responds to this and that.

This is simply because no phobia of possibility that any attacked subject will come after you due to the fact that there are limits to your updated profile, but facebook, you hardly spare none of your profile that would be easy for anybody to locate you. Of course that’s another point that doesn’t relate to BREAKING NEWS.

Back to the breaking news issue, if you wanna prove me wrong, just go to the trending list on twitter and see the topics and let me know if you’ve seen it on facebook, It is when they are stale on twitter they become breaking news on facebook.

4.CELEBRITY INTERACTION: Like seriously this is where I find twitter more interesting, did you know? On twitter you can actually talk to that favorite celebrity of yours. I remember the day I was staring on my TV and Funke Akindele’s “JENIFA” movie came up on the screen on Africa Magic, I quickly went to twitter to notify Funke herself and I got a response from her thanking me very well for the info, apart from the joy that a celebrity mentioned my name and thanked me, I got some more followers that day due to the mention seen by his numerous followers. Another day is the day I mentioned Don Jazzy on twitter to follow me, I didn’t know what happened, till today the man is part of my followers even without me following him. So many celebrities on twitter you can interact with provided they are not busy.

Okay let’s go to facebook, how do you even identify celebrities on facebook, the only way is to like their  verified fan pages, then you read their posts, those pages, if you don’t know are often operated by promoters or probably their PAs. They post without regarding fans’ opinion. In a nutshell, celebs interact with their followers on twitter more than they interact with their friends on facebook..

5. CHARACTER LIMIT: This is one of the major turn off for some people on twitter, the 140 character limit scares away some people, probably the people that really likes lengthy expressions. But trust me it helps a lot. When you read some posts on facebook, the introductory part of the story is always meaningful but going through the body, you find it boring. Go on twitter, the introduction, body of the tweet and conclusion would be summed up in between 140 characters. No time wasting, no stress in reading the tweet if meaningless, Just glance through it and leave the boring tweet and scroll over. The 140 limit makes your expression to be little and meaningful. It enhances good english

The list is endless but if you want or feel like challenging me. contact me here for open debate on so many other reasons why twitter is better than facebook.

Do you agree with these post or not? Kindly let’s see your opinion in the comment below!

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7 Interesting Tips You Should Know About Nigeria, They Will Make You PROUD!

Still in the spirit 0f Independence Celebration and Nigeria @56 Independence reminiscence here are some of the interesting facts about Nigeria:

28% of Forbers’ 40 richest African Entrepreneurs are Nigerians: Nigerians unarguably are hardworking and result oriented. No wonder a huge percentage of Forbes richest African entrepreneurs including the likes of Alakija and Dangote among many others make the list of Africa’s richest entrepreneurs.

Nigeria is the third largest English speaking nation in the world after India and the USA: Nigeria as a developing nation given independence by the British over 56 years ago still predominantly speak English Language of the colonial masters. Despite the numerous number of local languages in Nigeria, many Nigerian youths find it difficult to speak their local languages. Many speak English Language only!

The Longest Bridge in Africa: The third mainland bridge in Lagos State connecting Lagos Island to the mainland is the longest bridge in Africa and it measures about 11.8km. Talk about the giant of Africa.

33% of Nigeria’s land is arable: Some say, Nigeria is a land flowing with milk and honey. You may not dispute this fact as 33% of Nigeria’s land is suitable for Agriculture. One wonders when exactly, the economy diversification into Agriculture production will actually start and government officials will stop the talking and start the ‘doing’.

Nigeria is home to seven percent (7%) of the total languages spoken on earth: Nigeria’s local languages numbers over 400 with Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa as the major ones. Many Nigerians are however are unaware that there are many more local languages than they can think of. Taraba state alone has more languages than 30 local languages.

Nigeria is the third largest movie industry after Bollywood and Hollywood:Nigeria’s entertainment industry is booming as the day goes by. Despite the threat of piracy, Nollywood still stands tall as the third largest movies industry in the world.

Nigeria is 8th most populous country in the world: Nigeria’s population is increasing as the day goes by. Despite economic recession, hunger and complain of ‘no money,’ ‘we are suffering,’ the population, never stop increasing. This probably explains why you must find a Nigerian in almost every country you visit in the world.

Even a country that is just created today, you will find a Nigerian there!

GOD BLESS NIGERIA…. Comment if you’re proud to be a Nigerian.

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How performance may be improve with the installation of computer Information System

i. TIMELY INFORMATION:
Information can be made available on a more timely basis because of the rapid speed with which it can be processed.
Computerized statement and invioces can be prepared and sent within specific time. Preparation of many requires reports such as those mandated of many required reports such as those
mandated by government and agencies are facilitated.

ii. COST REDUCTION:
Manual system replaced with computerized system result in lower cost of operation.
The computerized system enables operations to be streamlined with a corresponding reduction in paper shifting, thus increasing the overall
efficiency and effectiveness of the firm.

iii. IMPROVED CUSTOMER SERVICE:
Customer relations are improved through more efficient handling of customer account,
such as more accessible records and ability to complete transactions more quickly.

iv. IMPROVED MANAGEMENT DECISIONS:
Owners can br supplied with more data and newer kinds of the data that provide them with  a stronger foundation on which to base their decisions.

v. ACCURATE INFORMATION:
Many of the routine transaction can be performed by the computer and a reduction in "human errors" is realized.

vi. BETTER CONTROL OVER OPERATIONS:
More comprehensive information is available and efficiently stored and as a result, internal control over the firms operations is improved. E.g, inventory control
is more efficient because current information concerning shipments and inventory levels is available.

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How to make delegation successful

To make a delegation successful you have to know and understand what a delegation is before following   the steps

DELEGATION
There is a limit to the number of persons a manager can effectively supervise and for whom they can conveniently make decision.
once this limit is exceeded, authority must be delegated to subordinated. The primary purpose of delegation can be defined as vesting of decision making power
on a subordinate by a superior. In other words, it is the transference to others, the responsibility for the performance of a specific task and or for the making of decision in a
general or specific area of management authority.

This means that the subordinate can only recive authority from his boss only and no one else- based on the unity of command concept. To be effective, the delegate must given full authority
to carry out his responsibility.

HOW TO MAKE DELEGATION SUCCESSFUL
i. Define assignment and delegate authority in the light of result expected.
ii. Select the person in the light of the job to be done.
iii. Maintain open lines of communications
1v. Establish proper controls to show only deviations from plans and not to monitor the details action of subordinates.

wish you best of luck......
Don't  forget if you have any thing for the admin or question

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Three Ways of Revising Work in order to improve motivation

There a three ways of revising work in order too improve motivation which i will like tell you about.

1.Job Enrichment:

This is a planned process of up-grading the content, responsibility and challenge of work. 

it is a main method of improving job satisfaction. This can be accomplished through increasing delegation, provision of more interesting

work and problem-solving mechanism at lower level within an organization.

2.Job Enlargement:

This is a process of adding to the number of operations in which a workers is engaged thereby moving away from narrow specialization of work.\

 It is a limited in its ability to improve staff motivation most especially when its relates to the blue collar workers who may be required

to perform several tedious tasks.

3. Job Rotation:

This relates to where a system of operation is planned resulting in members of staff exchanging positions so as to break the monotony inherent

in the work. This helps to provide fresh job challenges. 

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